Yesterday around this time I was in a different sort of bar. I’ve only ever been to this place in daylight, so I don’t know how it works at night, but by day the only light comes in through the high front windows. The ceiling is 15 feet high at least. The walls are painted in a shade suggesting the bottom of a swimming pool in old Havana, both paint and plaster chipping here and there. From the ceiling hang ornate glass lamps – at least a couple dozen – by long chains. The ash trays are similarly old world, each one a unique glass and brass masterpiece. Batista could walk in, or Hemingway, or Meyer Lansky.
But none of them will, because it’s on one of the few still-derelict blocks in old Denver. The place is nominally a wine bar (of all things) but it’s the dominion of the only master cigar roller in the Mountain states region, a man from the Dominican who makes a tidy living rolling for high-end corporate events and private parties, and maintains this little bar and shop along the way. An ancient Cuban rolling table sits up front, old cigar molds and other aging equipment of the dying trade lay all around. Plus a few other random things – glass cases stand around holding a few hand-made cigar cases, some dusty cutters, an odd line of flash watches for $25 a throw.
The only proprietor I’ve ever seen looks like 5th generation West Side. Ankle-length shorts, new Jordans, knee-length tee shirt, but the man himself is well over 50 with a long gray beard. When Peony and I order drinks, he takes the order from me. You know, or at any rate I know, that you behave yourself in there. I imagine that I can see the sawed-off behind the bar glowing in infrared. If you were going to knock over a bar, this would be the last place you would do, in every sense of the word. It would only make sense to do if you were tired of knocking over bars and wanted the easy way out, assuming that bleeding out on old Larimer street with a fist-sized hole in your chest is your idea of easy.
Needless to say, I love the joint. I can exhale in there. Not because it’s laid back or safe – it’s neither. But I know the rules enough. I show respect. And like I told Peony, I like places like that. It’s unambiguous. They don’t have to even like you, particularly, but you go in and act respectful, pay for your drinks and conduct yourself in a reasonable manner, nothing’s gonna happen to you, ever. Of course when I told her that she said, and rightly so, was, “yeah, if you’re a guy.” I had to pause on that, because she had a point. I mean, she could likely walk in there and own it and be perfectly fine, but she’s a different kind of creature, herself. It was a fair shot. A lot of what I consider to be basic givens in the world are basic givens for a mature, white cis-male with certain knowledge and credibility. It’s fair to remind me that the equations aren’t that simple.
She also said something to me yesterday that got to me a little bit. She noted that I was happier and more comfortable in that old school gangster bar than I am in bed with her. And she’s not wrong, in a way. Like I said, in an old school gangster bar, I know all the rules. I know where all the landmines are buried. In intimate congress with a beautiful woman such as herself? That’s a whole different kind of story.
No more of that today though. I just wrote the intro to for a book I’m starting and I can’t believe what it took out of me. I’ll say more about that later, or not, but the amount of energy it required was genuinely wild. I’m not a writer, really (like you couldn’t tell), so trying to engage with that full-on is a whole thing unto itself. I’m on my last dregs of literary energy as I write this, but somehow I can’t seem to stop. Like the pump is primed somehow, even though I’m not sure anything coming out of it now is even going to be half good.
I dunno. It’s a cloudy day, and Bill Withers comes on, “Ain’t no Sunshine.” I’m down in my usual hang right now, far from the Gangster bar downtown, smoking through an aged Maduro that I got there. Some underworld high-rollers one table over are talking about their collections, their humidors. There’s a biker guy with two fists full of big silver fighting rings, wearing the same pair of blue-blockers that Peony often wears. Across the table from him, a big tatted guy I don’t know is telling a story about accidentally ruining $5k worth of cigars with a humidification error. Sometimes I feel like the only broke guy in the entire world. A fat skater with a man-bun zooms through the plaza outside.
My kids are away. They’re with their grandparents and cousins up in one of the mountain towns. I used to have to go, though I obviously don’t now – those were the in-laws. Every July they go there and do the same things – sit through the same park ranger presentations, go on the same short hike, have the same cook-out. What’s interesting is they all hate it. But it’s tradition. They hate every minute of it every year but it reinforces their sense of identity. They consider themselves strong because they can endure their own self-inflicted vacation.
I mean, fuck me, sometimes I just want to take a baseball bat to the whole fucking edifice. I don’t even know what it is I want to smash. Something, anything, everything. I’ve been smashing it my whole life. I’ll be smashing it with my last breath, and it won’t make any difference, but I often feel like that’s the only authentic, ennobling thing in my whole life. That and raising the boys, but how to approach that as a parent?
And just then a little girl, maybe four or five, skips up to the window of the bar and smooshes her little button nose up against the glass and grins at me. I wave, but she just grins and smooshes. So I put down my cigar and slowly, dramatically, lift up a hand with my forefinger extended and gracefully, swoopingly, BOOP her nose through the glass. I can’t hear her, but I see her convulse in giggles and skip away.
Fuck it. I’m tired. The writing took it out of me. Tomorrow’s a long day, then I’m off to Florida – two days and ten hours of flight time for an hour meeting with somebody, I don’t even know who. In the bar, the local gangsters disperse. I realize the biker is wearing Sons of Silence colors. Supposedly there was a contract out on me with them once, but that’s a story for another day and anyway, the fella seems personable enough and isn’t apparently trying to kill me, so we’re good.
Another Sunday afternoon in Seamus’ world draws to its end.